feat(meeting): opt-in process-list reminder when a meeting app starts

Default off. When on, the layout polls detect_meeting_processes every 15s
with the user's app-name patterns. On a fresh match (edge-triggered — no
re-toast until the app goes away and comes back) we fire a reminder toast
that tells the user which meeting app appeared and their global hotkey. We
never start recording on this signal; the ideology rule says the user
decides. The signal is a single channel: process list match only — no mic
activity heuristic, no calendar.

Backend adds kon_core::process_watch::{list_running_process_names,
match_meeting_patterns} over sysinfo, exposed to the frontend as the
detect_meeting_processes Tauri command.

Settings ships two new fields — meetingAutoCapture (bool) and
meetingAutoCaptureApps (string[]) — with a comma-separated input in the
Output section. Default app list is ["zoom", "teams"], user-editable.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.7 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

src-tauri/src/commands/mod.rs

@@ -5,6 +5,7 @@ pub mod hardware;
 pub mod hotkey;
 pub mod live;
 pub mod llm;
+pub mod meeting;
 pub mod models;
 pub mod paste;
 pub mod profiles;